Becoming a Badass Woman or Badass Man
In this article, you will learn the following
-21 Qualities & Traits of Badass
-90 Tips on How to Be a Genuine Badass
-9+42 Most important Skills to Learn
How to be a Badass
There is a dream word — even if you have never heard of this word OR do not know what it means — I can guarantee that most of you want to be one.
This word is Badass.
21 Qualities & Traits of Badass
I. Being mentally and emotionally resilient
II. Being emotionally and socially intelligent
III. Are a great learner
IV. Smart because what actions-decision-targets he/she takes
V. Stretches himself/herself constantly by raising bar on his/her own
VI. Lives his/her life in his/her ways
VII. Makes mistakes because takes actions — but corrects them
VIII. Fails and bounces back
IX. Does not bother about what others say or think about him/her
X. Is fully self-aware of his triggers, weaknesses, strengths
XI. Is fully comfortable with himself/herself
XII. Is not afraid to show his/her vulnerabilities
XIII. Respects himself/herself and because of this respects others
XIV. Enjoys and feels genuinely happy for others’ success and accomplishments
XV. Helps others
XVI. Does not try to fit in BUT creates his path and directions
XVII. Brings out his/her uniqueness
XVIII. They earn the respect and admiration of others because of what they do, what they accomplish, and who they become ultimately
XIX. They know what they want and are focused on the big picture in life
XX. They make big moves, take big decisions and actions — and help others become the best version
XXI. Many of them might not had a privileged childhood and beginning — and despite severe handicaps, they manage to raise themselves to the levels the world starts to notice them and become in awe of them
So if these are a few of the Badass qualities you want to be — smarter, brilliant, successful, and healthy with awesome quality of relationships in most areas of your life?
First, you have to understand that being a Badass is all about building and growing your muscles by doing things in real-time.
Being Badass is not about — driving flashy cars or bikes recklessly, wearing branded designer wear, or being an arrogant assh*ole and show-off jerk.
Can you learn how to be a badass — absolutely?
Is it going to be easy becoming a Badass — NO not all — in truth -it is going to be very tough, highly uncomfortable, and full of failures and mistakes and unprecedented challenges, setbacks, and crises.
90 Tips on How to Be a Genuine Badass
1. Develop the attitude of seeing — obstacles, challenges, failures, mistakes, rejections, criticisms, losses, and bad phases — as opportunities to learn and grow.
2. Identify your larger-than-life big-picture
3. Identify what skills, knowledge, habits, thinking, and expertise — you need to acquire to move towards your dreams and aspirations
4. Divide the entire target into — very small YET stretch action steps
5. Ensure that you are taking action every day — which makes you move forward
6. Identify and get rid of or learn to manage — your negative habits of mind and routine — that are preventing you from moving forward
7. Develop the habit of finishing your actions — if are not able to one day — do it the next day
8. If you do not succeed — improvise and learn and then take action again — till you succeed
9. Use new technologies — like Google-Bard and ChatGPT and AI — to do the essential but mundane chores and tasks
10. Learn to be authentically and genuinely You
11. Develop a thick skin — so that criticism does not bother you
12. Learn when to give your full and when to give up
13. Learn to express yourself
14. Stop trying to impress others
15. Make sure that you feel proud of yourself justly
16. Learn to handle the giddy-feeling of your EGO getting bloated — when you are getting big success
17. Learn to acknowledge the contribution of your close and loved ones — in your life
18. Learn to notice and appreciate others
19. Learn to be respectable and don’t try to become likable
20. Develop the art of ignoring — people and things that do not add value
21. Learn to face the truth — however painful or uncomfortable they are
22. Learn to manage your feelings and emotions effectively
23. Be sincere and honest with yourself
24. Develop the belief and determination in yourself — which you would do what you set out about — whatever it takes
25. Develop the discipline of mind, emotion, and physical — follow-through mindset
26. Create power by becoming an expert and master in the things that interest you
27. Know your most important priorities and align your day with the actions on the most important ones
28. Know your true values and never compromise with them
29. Stop trying to seek approval, limelight, and appreciation from others
30. Stop complaining — instead negotiate solutions
31. 9+42 Most Important Skills to Learn
I. Emotional intelligence & Social intelligence — in fact, learn about 42 types of intelligence and work on them from my article on this website
II. Problem-solving & and Decision making
III. How to negotiate
IV. How to sell
V. How to convince others
VI. Master the Art of assertiveness
VII. Etiquette and manner to come out as sophisticated, classy, and sassy
VIII. Master the art of story-telling presentation
IX. Master the fineries of communication
32. Learn to take action towards what makes you scared BUT will open newer avenues of growth for you
33. Identify what makes you feel come alive and uplifted — do these regularly
34. Surround yourself with people — who make you challenge yourself by becoming better and better
35. Learn to deal effectively with — difficult, arrogant, toxic, and dominant people
36. Understand that being a Badass does not mean that you have to be a man or superwoman
37. Stop comparing yourself with others — instead if you come across people who make you wonder how they do it because of their mastery of any skill — learn that from them
38. Learn from the best masters
39. Focus on excelling instead of doing a mediocre job
40. Pro-actively identify what newer changes and trends are emerging — prepare yourself for the future by acquiring newer skills
41. Teach others what you are good at
42. Help others — who need it
43. Learn to Outsource or delegate -something which others can do — better faster and at lesser cost
44. Use the power of multiple minds — by crowdsourcing any difficult problems and challenges you are struggling with
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