Create Self-pride if Suffering from Low Self-worth
Being proud for the efforts, enthusiasm and energy you have put to make your and the lives of your loved ones — can be the best celebration of your life and yourself.
When you tell yourself internally as well as others — verbally — that what you have accomplished is insignificant — and may feel subconsciously that you don’t deserve to be loved, to be happy, to have wonderful relationship, be fit and healthy — then everything in life including your closest relationships get impacted negatively.
Everyone has something to be proud of but many of us feel and are scared — that it would look bad and seen as boastful — to show pride in self.
Feeling pride about self is about recognizing your worth and it is nothing to feel guilty about.
I know many people who are accomplished and have qualities that make them great human being– but many of them have deep emotional insecurities and as a result very low self-esteem.
9 points checklist — are you proud of who you are — please answer these honestly — how many of you
1. Spend a lot of time finding and looking at your faults, weaknesses, flaws and imperfections
2. Feel that you are not good enough
3. Can identify the negatives in fraction of second to take your moods to a low but forget easily all that you are blessed with
60 reasons to be proud of yourself right now — as you are today
1. List all the difficulties, obstacles, challenges, crisis, setbacks, problems, odds — that you have overcome so far in life
list all those things — where you have improved and where you have become better in handling more effectively — through the wisdom gained from all upsets that you have come through
2. List all qualities and strengths that you have acquired and build into yourself to become a better person today than your past
3. List all your successes and accomplishments that you have got
4. List all your qualities, skills, talents [even your weaknesses] — which makes you unique
5. List the people and society — where you have created meaningful impact — in the lives of other people — the positive ones
6. Go through your dreams — which are larger than life — although you have not yet achieved them — you are taking actions and moving towards them
Start treating yourself — like you want your kids to be treated by others
for full article — please read “Create reasons to feel proud about who you are” in Success Unlimited Mantra’s blog section “from the heart of Subhashis”
