How to be a Self-Assured Person
In this article, you will read about the following
-24 Qualities of Self-Assured People
-86 Ways to be Self-assured
-9 Elements of Self-assured people — all of them have very high levels of following — because they work themselves continuously
How to be Self-assured
24 Qualities of Self-Assured People
1. You may feel calm, good, and uplifted- just by being around Genuinely self-assured people.
2. Self-assured people have larger-than-life goals and they are focused on taking actions that stretch their current capabilities enabling them to grow further.
3. Self-assured people also feel uncertainties, confusion, doubts, fears, failures and anxieties from time to time.
4. Self-assured people may probably face more challenging situations as they are focused on the long-term growth of themselves as well as others.
5. But the self-assured people take action to bounce back from any adversities, setbacks, crises and disruptive changes — they happen to face.
6. Self-assured people are not afraid of making mistakes and failures — as they know nothing worthwhile can ever be achieved without learning — and they know that the best way to learn is to take action and experiment.
7. They use all their failures and mistakes as massive learning opportunities.
8. Being self-assured is a dynamic process — you may feel on top of the world during one specific phase and then face failures and challenges, in another project or goal or phase in your life.
9. Self-assured people remain self-assured — because they are focused on finding and implementing solutions and taking actions after improvising [in case something does not work].
10. Self-assured people feel delighted with others’ success and take inspiration from other’s accomplishments — Self-assured people celebrate other people’s success.
11. Self-assured people take risks — after assessing and evaluating the worst-case scenarios and creating solutions for these — so that they have better-coping power if unforeseen situations strike them.
12. Although all the self-assured people have big dreams and larger-than-life goals — they are focused on what they must do today.
13. Self-assured people have clarity of goals and where they want to go — they also are aware of where they are right now AND what they need to do to reach their goals.
14. Self-assured people — accept themselves fully and completely — as they are fully aware of their strengths, their fears and anxieties, and their weaknesses.
15. Self-assured people can let go easily.
16. Self-assured people are not afraid to accept their mistakes and show their vulnerabilities.
17. Self-assured people do not compete with others [unless it is worthwhile competition helps them move towards their big dreams] –
18. They choose to compete with themselves to progressively improve and grow.
19. Self-assured people don’t go destroying other people — in fact, they grow by helping others grow.
20. Self-assured people are great observers and they learn with a purpose.
21. Self-assured people take care of themselves fully –by putting effort into all aspects of life.
22. Self-assured people work on their habits, attitude, and thought process continuously — in all areas of their life — physical, mental, emotional, financial, social and relationship etc.
23. Self-assured people are flexible and welcome changes and work on making themselves adaptable — as a result, they don’t mind being out of their comfort zones.
24. 9 Elements of Self-assured people — all of them have very high levels of following — because they work themselves continuously
I. Self-esteem
II. Self-confidence
III. Self-aware
IV. Self-pride
V. Self-belief
VI. Self-acceptance
VII. Self-Efficacy
VIII. Self-image
IX. Healthy and Empowering Self-love
81 Ways to be Self-assured
All the following tips [unless they are complete in themselves — have detailed do-it-yourself article and answer among my 900+ blogs on my two websites and in my Quora page
1. Train yourself to enjoy discovering and working on all those qualities, traits, habits and skills — that can make you successful and keep you in demand irrespective of changes happening in the world — in technology, in consumer needs and expectations, in the economy and in your life
2. Set Realistic Goals — Create a strategic plan and Commit to Your Success
3. Ignore what is beyond your current capabilities now
4. Take action on all that are within your area of influence and control
5. Learn to respond after calming yourself to the level — when you are not feeling the urge to take reactive actions
6. Give space to others to grow — especially your loved ones
7. Be ok with things not working out — no one succeeds all the time
8. When you have got the momentum of a positive roll — keep moving till you are accomplishing big
9. Sharpen Your Ability to Influence Others
10. Learn to identify choices, options and possibilities in both adverse as well as positive situations
11. When you succeed — ensure that you identify near-misses
12. Stop bothering about and Ignore What Others Think of You
13. If you are struggling with something -Talk it out
14. Be responsible in whatever role you have as a — parent, child, sibling, spouse, citizen, junior, senior etc.
15. Create a disciplined self-care plan
16. Don’t try to fit in –dare to be different — stand out from the crowd
17. Face difficulties head-on — don’t sit on
18. Get rid of the urge for other’s validation and your being a victim
19. Groom yourself, dress in what makes you feel good — maintain personal hygiene
20. Learn the art of sophistication and of being sassy and classy by practicing etiquette and manners and
21. Improve your communication skills, presentation skills and public speaking skills
22. Learn the art of asking powerful questions
23. Learn the art of listening to learn and understand
24. Learn the art of story-telling way of talking to enroll masses
25. If you have regrets, shame and hurt — identify and work on them — take the help of medical and mental-health experts if you feel that would help
26. Identify people who pull you down, are toxic, and makes you feel bad about yourself
27. Learn to deal with these people as well as with — difficult, arrogant and controlling people
28. Ensure that you have more people — who inspire, uplift, motivate and support you
29. Learn from the best in field masters — enroll them for your growth
30. Learn to deal with your rejections, irritations, loneliness etc.
31. Identify and challenge the negative beliefs you have about yourself
32. Identify and work on your unhealthy and disempowering habits that are making you stuck — find how you can get rid of them
33. Identify negative thought patterns — and then learn to manage them or get rid of them
34. Identify your weaknesses that are pulling you down — then work on them to either minimize them or get rid of them
35. Identify your fears — that prevent you from taking massive actions towards your dreams — then find ways you can become comfortable in taking actions — despite your fears
36. Identify what you would do — if you can deal with all the challenges — have a free-thinking exercise and after focused deliberations IDENTIFY YOUR BIG GOALs
37. Identify your strengths that make you succeed — work on them to sharpen them further
38. Identify what you are good at doing
39. Identify what makes you come alive
40. Identify what uplifts and inspires you
41. Identify what empowering habits you need to cultivate in yourself
42. Identify what — skills, knowledge, experience, exposure and expertise — you need to develop in yourself — to reach your larger-than-life goals — THEN DEVELOP a LEARNING PLAN
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