Practical Psychological Techniques that Really work
In this article you will learn the following
-100+ Psychological tricks-hacks-techniques that really work
-9 most powerful NLP techniques — you need to learn to make your life happier
-21 cons you need to Learn to recognize manipulation through dangerous dark psychology
-27 dark psychological traps used by megalomaniac autocratic Politicians, religious- zealots, autocratic-leaders and evil-powerful officials
Cool Psychological techniques to make your quality of life better
All of us need to feel confident — all of us get unnerved in certain situations — all of us dread dealing with few people — all of us need to gain self-control in few situation.
I have listed few cool, easy and practical psychological tips that have worked with me in various tough, challenging and difficult situations — You can add your own developed techniques you have used to come out of tricky situations.
The tips given in this article — although — are simple YET needs solid regular practice — like anything of significance.
But once you have mastered these — they will make your life easier, less stressed and full of confidence.
If you start practicing these tips — then you would be able to recall these and use unconsciously when you get stuck.
Many of the tips — given here — have 900+ detailed do-it-yourself articles, blogs and 3000+ answers in my two websites as well in my Quora page.
100+ Psychological tricks-hacks-techniques that really work
1. If you are supposed to make an important presentation — practice it in front of someone [it could be your kid or pet — in case you can’t have a group]
2. To create great impression and persuade others — learn and create the supporting arguments for diametrically opposite views and then show why what you are suggesting is superior
3. When presenting your view-points — use as much verifiable and impressing data as possible
4. Mix your speech with technical jargon as well as explanations in laymen’s terms
5. Learn to drop name — strategically and subtly
6. Chew gum before any important event to stop worrying
7. Look between the eyes or forehead — to give others the feeling that you are looking eye to eye and also to establish credibility
8. If you are talking with a group or in front of large audience — rotate your head slowly by stopping for fraction of seconds — to make almost everyone feel that you are engaging them exclusively
9. For fast reading with retention — read a chunk of words and not word by word
10. For remembering — trust your gut — be totally without pressure and after the lecture/speech over note down the most important points
11. Use body language and expression to ask someone for help without using words
12. Learn effective body-language to create good impression
13. If you are going to be making a presentation or speech or even going for interview — try to be the first or the last — for maximum recall from your audience
14. When you want to convey your dissent or displeasure — silently stare at them without blinking and showing zero emotion
15. If you want people to listen to you better — lower your tone to almost a whisper — when giving your punchline
16. If someone is agitated — look at them and make your breathing the same when you are fully calm — to slowly bring their agitation down
17. If you want people to respond — after asking question — give a pause of 15 seconds
18. Learn to ask powerful questions — that make people introspect and to get in touch with their insecurities
19. After you have given your offer — to challenge them — sit comfortably — look into their eyes and smile
20. If you want to make them little unsure — after they have given a large presentation — ask them to explain again
21. To understand or to buy-time to create your response — ask others to elaborate further by asking could you please explain what you mean or could you repeat that, please
22. When you don’t know anything about a topic — listen and then ask a question — to participate and to become part of a group
23. Learn to ask deeper questions subtly about others — to make them feel that you are their well-wisher
24. Make very unreasonable demand then scale down to little above what you need to make others grant you this favor
25. Use the technique of — if you can’t convince them — confuse them — in insignificant relationships and issues
26. Do not get dragged into arguments — when argument starts — let others win and you walk away
27. Ask for favor by making it seem bigger than it is — to appeal to their sense of feeling great helping you
28. Learn to appreciate — by giving specific reasons
29. Praise others for their accomplishments — learn to be happy from others’ success and happiness — to get the same in your life
30. Learn to communicate using we to enroll their agreement and participation
31. Don’t try to correct others — when you are 100% sure that they are — it is not worth embarrassing anyone
32. Ask questions in such a way that people think that it is their idea
33. Give people choice — to make them think that they have made the decision
34. If you must lie -use 20% lies along with 80% truth
35. Look into someone’s eyes when you get a dissatisfactory answer
36. Learn to remember and use names if you want to be popular
37. When you find it difficult to take decision — break the task into small-small steps and decide on them
38. Practice and use right posture to boost your confidence
39. Make people feel needed when you ask for help
40. Rub your hands to warm before you shake hands with others
41. Help people — just like that — do something first to create a feeling of indebt-ness
42. Ask for something much harder and outrageous than what you really want
43. Create a feeling of scarcity — sometimes when you want people to agree with something
44. Admit little things to build trust
45. Know which color and which style among your dresses makes you feel confident and powerful — wear them when you are going for important events
46. Think the worst and create the most negative assumptions — then find ways to overcome them
47. Put a large mirror behind you — if deal with many angry customers face to face
48. Ignore-avoid-eliminate — toxic and difficult people or learn how to deal with them
49. Improve your critical and analytical thinking — because if you know how to analyze a person’s behavior and actions towards you — you will be able to easily spot genuine as well as manipulators
50. Use over the ear headphones to stop people from talking with you
51. Ask an innocent question that traps into the interest of others — to distract them
52. Ignore excuses, tantrums and dramas of others — and instead ask them about what is important
53. Ask others to give you with figures and numbers
54. Sandwich your request with the word Because — by creating a big cause
55. To build trust and bonding and to remove guard share a small secret to make them be more open with you
56. Learn to joke and create humor
57. Be comfortable in showing your vulnerable side with confidence
58. Make them to think about the future
59. Try something new together
60. Maintain grooming — be a well-dressed person
61. Stop chasing people — create compelling reasons for them to become interested in you
62. Polish and sharpen your communication skills
63. Make your manners respectable
64. Stand out — don’t be part of crowd
65. Create personal magnetism and charm
66. Choose the right seat at dinner — there are few power-seats — claiming your space -rest your arms on the armrests
67. Stop being boring, nagging and weighing
68. Learn to be the center of attention
69. Be objective and open-minded -do not let your emotions and past experiences influence your impressions and opinions
70. Master and use small talk — then lead it to meaningful conversations
71. Ask direct questions to get a straight answer
72. Pay attention to your flashes of insight
73. Become a good observer — practice watching people — recognize hot buttons and triggers
74. Learn to use EFT — the emotional freedom technique — to overcome fear and pain
75. Trust your gut-feelings — if for no reason you feel scared — check and create ways feel secure and make yourself safe
76. If you feel someone is stalking/watching you — don’t ignore your feeling — ensure that you take adequate deterrent steps
77. Even if you are not clear about something — explain/teach it to someone
9 most powerful NLP techniques — you need to learn to make your life happierThis article was originally published as “=100 Psychological tricks that really work “ in https://successunlimited-mantra.com/index.php/blog [1st]for more than 3000+ blogs, articles and answers on creating metamorphosis in every aspect of your life — personal, professional, business, mental, emotional, social, relationships — please visit all three links http://relationshipandhappiness.com/ [2nd] and https://www.quora.com/profile/Subhashis-Banerji [3rd]
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